Our New Duet: A Mother-Daughter Piano Lesson Journey
- Kathleen Ordinario
- Aug 8
- 2 min read
When Diana, my 6-year-old daughter, announced she was ready to try something new, I suggested piano lessons. She has always loved music, and I thought it would be a lovely skill for her to have. Not just for the music itself, but for the discipline, creativity, and joy I knew it could bring. What I didn’t expect was that I’d end up learning right alongside her.
I’ve never played an instrument before, not piano, not guitar, not even that little tambouring that you just stand off to the side and shake. But music has always been part of my life. I grew up in the ballet studio, where classical music filled the air every day. During company class, I’d watch the pianist play, his fingers gliding across the keys with such grace, and I’d feel the music in my bones as I danced. Still, I never thought I’d sit at a piano myself.
In my late 30s, here I am, a beginner again. From the first lesson, it’s been humbling and joyful in equal measure. I fumble. I laugh. I cheer when Diana gets something right, which she often dose, she seems to be a natural. She beams when she masters a new song, and usually she teaches me a trick or two. It’s been wonderful to rediscover music not just through movement, but through my own hands on the keys.
The best part? The bonding. Our practice sessions at home are a mix of clumsy scales, silly duets, and “Wait, let’s try that again” moments. The car rides to and from her lesson each week have become our sacred little bubble of girl time. We sing along to the radio, talk about friends, or just sit quietly, enjoying the easy comfort of being together without two noisy brothers constantly yelling over the radio.
This isn’t just about music, it’s about the memories we’re making. One day, she’ll play beautifully without thinking twice about it. And maybe I will too. But for now, I’m cherishing these early days, where we’re both learning, both laughing, and both showing up for each other on this sweet, melodic adventure. It's never too late to learn especially with your daughter by your side.
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